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You posted your photo and asked the question Is this too fat? Be careful of asking a question to which you may not like hearing the answer. More than 2/3 of the population in the U.S. are overweight. More than 1/3 are considered obese. Preteen kids are getting Diabetes. Obviously, this is not because people WANT these types of health maladies. Rather, it seems to be the result of poor lifestyle choices. These lifestyle choices are, in turn, the result of too much conflicting diet information diets do not work longterm and false information putforth by food manufactures with the blessing of the FDA. As a result, people do not understand how or what to eat. This is, of course, and oversimplification. There are other factors, too. But this is a good start. I mention this because it's a shame to know that some people feel that getting older automatically means weight gain and disease are foregone conclusions. More often than not, nothing could be further from the truth. Of course, if a person does what everyone else does, they will often get what everyone else gets. That means weight gain, Diabetes, heart disease, Cancer, etc. Now, back to the jerk that treated you poorly. I'm truly sorry this happened to you. No matter how a person looks on the outside, it does not give others the right to be insensitive, hurtful, or abusive. Fortunately, your value as a human being is defined by what you think, say, and doit's not defined by others. Human nature being what it is, of course, people WILL try to define your worth, but this will be a lie. People tend to project onto others what they dislike in themselves. As you correctly observed None of us are perfect. In closing, I wish you luck in your search. I bet that moving away from a superficial avenue like chirrup will only improve your experience. Peace p.s. For anyone out there interested in seeing a couple of people over 40, go to Google Images and search for Paul Check 48 or 49 years old and Mark Sisson 57
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